Black women, for your educational purposes, I have put a list together for you about white men based upon the comments & questions I have received in the past.
No they don't all have teeny weenies, some of them are very well endowed
Some of them can last a long time and all night long
It isn't always pink, it comes in an assortment of colors, usually FLESH COLORED
Some of them do have rhythm where it counts
No they don't ask you to call them Massa, or call you the n-word in the heat of the moment at least not in my experience. Of course I am sure there are some willing to do so if you ask them.
I don't know if their semen tastes differently. I thought taste was based upon health and diet, not race.
Yes they do offer oral sex, I thought most men did, and if they don't they should.
Some of them do prefer big booties to big boobs
Some of them still like big boobs too
Yes, some of them don't know they can't grab a black woman's hair in some cases.
In some cases they can and everyone is happy.
The freakiness level of white guys is just like black guys, it varies on the person.
Yes, some of them find the contrast a turn on, but to be fair, I am sure there are black women who find the contrast sexy as well. I even admitted to liking the contrast a while back.
This is all based upon one white guy as I was a strict virgin before marriage. Yeah, for real I was....ok I wasn't, but still pretend I was.
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I was always told and statistics prove that White men give oral sex more than Black men depending on the age groups asked. Some Black men find it demeaning-- the ones who said they didn't. But again, this may have been guys over 40 or something. Still, there is this "difference" that has been promoted between Black men and White men. Some of my girlfriends who have dated both have said that White men are more giving in bed-- they seem more concerned with your pleasure, whereas Black men only want to get theirs and are not willing to go the extra mile for their partners. I wouldn't know this as I've only been with Non-Black men. I think that generalizations can be dangerous. I'm sure that no Black man will readily refute that he's well-endowed as that has been they myth promoted for years. But, I'm sure there are plenty of well-endowed White men out there. Black men are not the only ones-- personally, I don't think size guarantees that they will be great lovers-- that could be another myth, I guess.
I've never been so stuck on size, so it never really mattered. Long as the job gets done, I'm cool. About the oral sex, from my experience of being initmate with Black, White, Hispanic, and Asian men (damn, I've had the whole rainbow), White and Hispanic men hands down offer it more and are willing to do it A LOT more than Black men. From what the Black men told me, they don't have to because they have big d*cks...then I was quick to tell them "don't believe the hype, for many of you have itty bitty weenies." Then if they do perform oral sex, its for maybe one minute...no passion, skills, or whatever...just doing it to be doing it for one minute (of course, not all Black men...just the average).
I was always told and statistics prove that White men give oral sex more than Black men depending on the age groups asked. Some Black men find it demeaning-- the ones who said they didn't.
Well damn it, I am glad I have sexually only been with white men if that was the case, that is a must do, if I am willing dammit, you better be too.
Some of my girlfriends who have dated both have said that White men are more giving in bed-- they seem more concerned with your pleasure, whereas Black men only want to get theirs and are not willing to go the extra mile for their partners.
I've heard that as well. Of course I have met black men who claim it is all about the woman, and their needs come second, so big ups to them, I hope that is most black men, but I don't know. In my before marriage days had some white duds as well.
I'm sure there are plenty of well-endowed White men out there.
I once dated a white guy who was VERY well endowed. To the point his nickname as a child from his own parents was "sausage". I think that is the guy who kicked off my preference for tall guys LOL
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I've never been so stuck on size, so it never really mattered. Long as the job gets done, I'm cool.
Listen I am not going to lie size matters. I don't want to be impaled, but a two incher isn't going to do the job either.
About the oral sex, from my experience of being initmate with Black, White, Hispanic, and Asian men (damn, I've had the whole rainbow), White and Hispanic men hands down offer it more and are willing to do it A LOT more than Black men.
It should be a law that all men offer oral, black men included, I don't care how well endowed they are.
Then if they do perform oral sex, its for maybe one minute...no passion, skills, or whatever...just doing it to be doing it for one minute (of course, not all Black men...just the average).
Aaahhhhhhh uh uh. I think that is probably why I used to be a make out bandit, because if you are a good kisser that should mean you are good in other areas too. Of course now if I tongue down my husband, I better be prepared to act upon it. He snagged me, I guess he feels he doesn't have to hold out anymore.
Some of my girlfriends who have dated both have said that White men are more giving in bed-- they seem more concerned with your pleasure, whereas Black men only want to get theirs and are not willing to go the extra mile for their partners.
I've been told that more than a few times right along with black guys don't like to give oral and shouldn't have to because of their "endowment."
I can say with complete certainty that the penis size myth is just that, a myth. Without giving away too much of my business I can tell you that the biggest one I've ever seen was on a white guy. In fact it was so big I literally kicked him out of bed. -lol-
I've never dated a guy who didn't do oral. I do believe white guys tend to be more open and enthusiastic about it. I get the impression that for many black guys it's simply a means to an end. Whereas, for many white guys it's like a badge of honor or something.
LOL @ two incher...well of course you have to be able to feel it with a certain amount of thickness to give you that "wow" factor, but guys lie all the time on their d*cks (like we won't find out). Well I knew a guy who was THE WORST KISSER EVER, but he was highly skilled at oral. I don't know how that happened but it did.
Whereas, for many white guys it's like a badge of honor or something.
It's more like an art form
I've been told that more than a few times right along with black guys don't like to give oral and shouldn't have to because of their "endowment."
Well if that is the case, I can't be dating black guys if I ever become single. A penis is not the only gift man has to offer.
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I can say with complete certainty that the penis size myth is just that, a myth. Without giving away too much of my business I can tell you that the biggest one I've ever seen was on a white guy. In fact it was so big I literally kicked him out of bed.
I am sure there are itty bittys out there, but the brothers don't have full reign on endowments.
I've never dated a guy who didn't do oral. I do believe white guys tend to be more open and enthusiastic about it. I get the impression that for many black guys it's simply a means to an end. Whereas, for many white guys it's like a badge of honor or something.
Hell for my husband it is a means to an end, once we got married everything became a means to an end, it all leads to the same thing.
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LOL @ two incher...well of course you have to be able to feel it with a certain amount of thickness to give you that "wow" factor, but guys lie all the time on their d*cks (like we won't find out). Well I knew a guy who was THE WORST KISSER EVER, but he was highly skilled at oral. I don't know how that happened but it did.
Oh lord, I would have dismissed him. I can't do bad kissing and I can't do stank breath men.
Whereas, for many white guys it's like a badge of honor or something.
It's more like an art form
Where are the single and willing ladies?
I don't compare, because I really want to get off as much as any woman wants to and if you're able to do that, then we are good to go!
WM have always been reserved with me. The freakiness level was low! (did that sound disappointing?) lol
Classical, I would have laughed at you saying oral sex was an "art form", but I know it's true. My ex was the only BM that did it with enthusiasm. He actually studied the shit...I'm not lying! So, it is an art form and it pays off well!
The rest of your list...bwwwahhhaaahaaa We really need to let go of the stereotypes of WM and other non-black men. It is so limiting.
I don't compare, because I really want to get off as much as any woman wants to and if you're able to do that, then we are good to go! WM have always been reserved with me. The freakiness level was low! (did that sound disappointing?) lol Classical, I would have laughed at you saying oral sex was an "art form", but I know it's true. My ex was the only BM that did it with enthusiasm. He actually studied the shit...I'm not lying! So, it is an art form and it pays off well! The rest of your list...bwwwahhhaaahaaa We really need to let go of the stereotypes of WM and other non-black men. It is so limiting.
I think when you are in a relationship, guys tend to want you to be more reserved. My husband thinks I am a complete freak, I might go too far for him, whereas in my past I was considered a prude. He was so innocent until I got to him LOL. I know how not to push limits LOL.
I'm envious of your ex. Seriously, he studied it. Most guys just try it out until they think they found something that works. Maybe I am not a freaky as I think.
We also pretend each other were virgins before we got together, we don't discuss the past, with good reason. Jealousy and intimidation ain't cute.
This is hilarious. My ongoing joke with my white boyfriend is that everyone always asks me about his penis and I tell them that it's pink. I think the people that I know who would be interested in asking questions are afraid to ask anyway.
oh goodness Siditty, this is hilarious. Man, If I was pink, I'd be worried !
"Yes they do offer oral sex" seriously ? this supposed to be something we don't like ??
hey, and what's wrong with enjoying the 'contrast', how can you not be aware of that, in a cool way.
all in all, quite insightful for a virgin at marriage.
"Yes they do offer oral sex" seriously ? this supposed to be something we don't like ??
The stereotype is black men don't do it, and that white men do it to compensate for lack of size. I have never been with a black man, so I cannot confirm this.
hey, and what's wrong with enjoying the 'contrast', how can you not be aware of that, in a cool way. all in all, quite insightful for a virgin at marriage.
It is kind of fetish like to enjoy the contrast, but it I guess it isn't a fetish if it is ongoing, and more of a preference in my men LOL
Yes, I have researched all of this by reading. I don't know anything about sex outside of marriage or premarital sex. In college I didn't let loose, I instead sat in the library and studied the whole entire time, which explains why I was a super duper college student, graduating with my bachelor's at age 27.
Proof that white men have rhythm where it counts!!!!!
I've never been so stuck on size, so it never really mattered. Long as the job gets done, I'm cool.
Listen I am not going to lie size matters. I don't want to be impaled, but a two incher isn't going to do the job either.
I have comment on this. It's too good to let up. As a white male at 22 when it comes to "well endowment" it's just not there, like a Howard Stern scenario. To me it based on the individual, everybody is different. But siddity does make a good point, ultimately size does matter. And I have to ask. Okay if a 2 inch can't do it, how about a 5-6 inch? That's practically the average. Ladies? I will expect silence. Why? Because it only comes naturally as a thought. It's like tits and asses to guys, we want bigger. It's nothing to be ashamed of, for either man or woman. However, that's just me. Oh yeah, who doesn't like to give oral sex? That question shouldn't have been asked. It's a give me. My chances of being accepted is slim. Relationship wise.
Maybe it's a coincidence, but the freakiest guys I've ever been with were White. They seemed more willing to try different things. I won't go into what they are, but I will say that it's something that not many of the Black men that I know of would be willing to do. I'm sure there are Black men who are sexually open-minded and I just hadn't met them. I've never been sexually attracted to Black men, so there would be no real desire to find out. The only two Black guys I dated, I didn't really let near me.
. And I have to ask. Okay if a 2 inch can't do it, how about a 5-6 inch? That's practically the average. Ladies? I will expect silence. Why? Because it only comes naturally as a thought. It's like tits and asses to guys, we want bigger. It's nothing to be ashamed of, for either man or woman. However, that's just me. Oh yeah, who doesn't like to give oral sex? That question shouldn't have been asked. It's a give me. My chances of being accepted is slim. Relationship wise.
I think most women are willing to accept an average size penis. Five to six inches isn't a bad thing. In terms of oral sex, the rumor is white guys do it, black guys don''t. Why would your chances at 22 be slim. I am sure there are tons of young women willing and able ;)
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Maybe it's a coincidence, but the freakiest guys I've ever been with were White. They seemed more willing to try different things. I won't go into what they are, but I will say that it's something that not many of the Black men that I know of would be willing to do. I'm sure there are Black men who are sexually open-minded and I just hadn't met them. I've never been sexually attracted to Black men, so there would be no real desire to find out. The only two Black guys I dated, I didn't really let near me.
I've never been with a black guy sexually, so I can't compare and contrast. The few dates I have had with black men didn't get that far.
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. And I have to ask. Okay if a 2 inch can't do it, how about a 5-6 inch? That's practically the average. Ladies? I will expect silence. Why? Because it only comes naturally as a thought. It's like tits and asses to guys, we want bigger. It's nothing to be ashamed of, for either man or woman. However, that's just me. Oh yeah, who doesn't like to give oral sex? That question shouldn't have been asked. It's a give me. My chances of being accepted is slim. Relationship wise.
I think most women are willing to accept an average size penis. Five to six inches isn't a bad thing. In terms of oral sex, the rumor is white guys do it, black guys don''t. Why would your chances at 22 be slim. I am sure there are tons of young women willing and able ;)
I highly doubt it. Sure they'll accept it. But that doesn't mean they'll like it. Oh well.
Well, when it comes to oral sex, hearsay isn't exactly a solid case. I guess it depends on the person. I can see both white guys and black guys who are well endowed to not give back. Considering the ego trip is fairly large.
I highly doubt it. Sure they'll accept it. But that doesn't mean they'll like it. Oh well. Well, when it comes to oral sex, hearsay isn't exactly a solid case. I guess it depends on the person. I can see both white guys and black guys who are well endowed to not give back. Considering the ego trip is fairly large.
OK In terms of at least my experiences, white men of all sizes do oral.
Personally, if it isn't equal, it's over. there should be an equal amount of give and take when it comes to sex. I mean each person is responsible for telling their partner what they like and don't like, but if the person doesn't want to do it, but expects for things to be done to them, that would be a huge deal breaker.
"Okay if a 2 inch can't do it, how about a 5-6 inch? That's practically the average. Ladies? I will expect silence. Why?"
Yes, that is the average penis on most men, because anatomically that is also the length of a normal vaginal canal. It is also why most women shy away from larger penises.
Don't forget that girth also plays a part. So yes, a small penis with a wide girth may do the job and a long penis with a small girth might not get much. Rotation plays a bit of a role, too! If you got skillz in the bedroom, you have nothing to worry about. Whether it's small/average/large. Bigger doesn't necessarily mean "better".
This is just from my experience and also opinion.
Every woman is different, so what might work for one, may not work for others.
It is what you bring to the table (or bedroom for that matter) that makes all the difference.
Very good list! I've never had a guy I dated want me to call him "Massa"; that would be a true WTF moment.
And the contrast is very, very nice. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
My friends and I refer to anything 2 inches or less as a "man clit".
Personally, if it isn't equal, it's over. there should be an equal amount of give and take when it comes to sex. I mean each person is responsible for telling their partner what they like and don't like, but if the person doesn't want to do it, but expects for things to be done to them, that would be a huge deal breaker.
Yeah, that stuff kills me. I can't be doing all the work, while others do nothing. If I gotta do acrobatics, you do too.
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Rotation plays a bit of a role, too! If you got skillz in the bedroom, you have nothing to worry about. Whether it's small/average/large. Bigger doesn't necessarily mean "better".
Very true.
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My friends and I refer to anything 2 inches or less as a "man clit".
My friends and I refer to anything 2 inches or less as a "man clit".
Maybe it's just me, but if a guy can compensate good "Mouth and Hand" skills with being "under endowed", the size becomes a non issue. There are other ways you can get off. Besides they make strap-ons for guys..
Maybe it's just me, but if a guy can compensate good "Mouth and Hand" skills with being "under endowed", the size becomes a non issue. There are other ways you can get off. Besides they make strap-ons for guys..
Nah, like I said, I don't want a log, but at the same time, you gotta have something down there. Not to mention, I don't know how my husband or any guy I have ever dated would feel if I got them a strap on as a present. I think it would be a blow to the ego.
let me tell you something ladies....do not underestimate non-black men!
The only time I EVER got my ass HANDLED was with an Asian/White guy!
Physically,he looked more Asian than white too.
The black guys I've been with totally sucked! They did not care how I felt or if I got any pleasure out the experience. The Latino guys I have been with were too eager, and they rushed through everything.
I can count the number of I've guys I've been with on one hand.
I refuse to sleep with a million people to see if the experiences get better.
I'd like to have my walls intact for my future husband one day! ;)
I am dating a white guy now..he's soooo cute, and uber tall and muscular. We're also getting pretty serious, and I think he might be the one. I haven't slept with him because we're taking it slow, and trying to do 'Biblical dating'. There's definitely sexual chemistry there and he's very sensual and a great kisser. Hopefully there won't be any bad surprises down the road :)
I think it would be a blow to the ego.
I think that there is a way to go about it, but every woman has her preference. I know women who will not be in a relationship with a guy who is "average" which I think is 4-6 inches. The guy has to be 7 inches and up. That would scare me...
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