2009-09-08

A Frank Discussion With A White Person About Racism

Jovent aka Mr. Man @ mrm9114@gmail.com has bestowed upon me an email. Apparently I touched a nerve with my last post. Then this guy came in and confirmed my beliefs about racism. He also claims only black people like Angelina Jolie and Jessice Biel. LOL The majority of personal emails I receive from white people are of this ilk. The belief is that blacks have privilege, that we all benefit from Affirmative Action, that whites and other races don't benefit from it, blacks are less intelligent, and blacks are not accountable for their own actions and use racism as a scapegoat.

I wonder does he realize he is the epitome of the white racist stereotype I put forth in my last post. So if my opinions you feel are skewed, this might be why.

From: Mr man
Date: Sep 4, 2009 9:28pm
Subject: Your comments are one's I'm too familiar with.
To: siditty@gmail.com
CC:

There are so many mistakes here that it is hard to know where to begin. Your comments are one's I'm too familiar with.

You said: "In terms of whites co-opting black stereotypes, I can only say this, this sounds mean, but whites have a habit of taking or co-opting things without acknowledging where those things come from." This is very much in accord with anti-white bias that pervades contemporary culture. The current age casts white culture by turns as stultifying, spoiled, rapacious, and backwards. We are the only race that has nothing to recommend it.

This statement by you is to convince your readers that this view, however commonsensical it has become, is entirely inverted. It is an almost inconceivable injustice rooted in a tragic ignorance of history or willful blindness. The world has apparently forgotten Shakespeare was white, Isaac Newton was white, Michelangelo was white. . A full 97 percent of significant scientific figures between 800BC and 1950 have come from the West. Indeed, nearly all the great innovators in science, technology, art, literature, and philosophy have been white. In fact, between the 11th century and 1950, all major technological innovations, from the watch to the steam engine to the computer, came from Europe and the United States. Indeed, white people created the whole moral system that condemns them.

Today the world blames white Americans for slavery but forgets that whites were the first to formulate the concept of human rights that is the basis of this condemnation. Until the 19th century slavery was a universal practice, and Arabs, Africans, and Asians never realized it might be wrong until white people told them so and pressured them to abolish it. The very blog you write was create by whites. Your tv, radio, movies, medicine, cars, airplanes, democracy.

Today big lips and big asses are not considred pretty by white people. Jolie, Beil, Coco are more admired by blacks than white. I don't see coco in any white men mags. Biel is pretty but not for a her ass, and her ass isn't even fat. A very small percentage of WW get botox in their lips or ass implants, Most blk women get their hair straightend, however. Who thinks Timberlake is the best entertainr? Most of his fans are blk. Also, Rap is crap. Vanalia Ice was never more popular than LL Cool J. White people invented movies but most blk people's favorite movies are blk movies. People relate more to their own kind. You're just so myopic you can't understand that.

Whites don't want a discussion on race, because in reality, that discussion would hurt your feelings." Didn't you just make an assumption of what whites think with this statement? This perspective results in a blatantly biased interpretation of American history that universally casts whites as villains and non-whites as victims. Injustice flows in one direction only—from whites to non-whites—and never the other way around. Furthermore, non-whites’ problems are never their own responsibility, but due solely to oppression by whites. You use race as a scapegoat for being a failure in life.

You said" Whites chose to be excluded from the topic of race, they didn't want race relations to change or improve for the most part, black people did, and that is what many whites fail to acknowledge. Whites were for the most part just fine with slavery, and just fine with Jim Crow." If the vast majority of whites were fine with it than why did it end, you moron. Thanks in part to the efforts of the majority of Americans who were not slaves and who are not black, blacks in America today are the richest and freest blacks on God's green earth. Richer and freer than black citizens of any black nation in the world. Your racial indictment of white America is a house of cards built with a stacked deck. The acts undertaken by Americans and their government over the next hundred years, which have had world ramifications for minorities and oppressed people everywhere, including the civil rights battles to end segregation and discrimination, the trillions of dollars devoted to economic programs and affirmative action plans designed to uplift the poor generally and blacks in particular. These are all dismissed.

You said: "When white people do include themselves in the debate and actually "get it", they are viewed as race traitors and dismissed by fellow whites. Jane Elliot and Tim Wise are perfect examples of this." Leftwing race activist (and self-flagellating white male) Tim Wise is a piece of work. Wise is a self-hater. No doubt about it. His goal is an excuse to bash whites and promote minority racism and leftist notions of social justice.

You said: "In post-racial America, whites have made it loud and clear what they think about a black President, over and over and over again. Wow, you're so ignorant. A few screwballs are pulling their kids out of school, so that represents most whites? This is a perfct example of black privilege. A blk person can say whatever they want about a white person and no one thinks anything of it. However, if someone hates Obama for his idiotic policies than they're racist, as if the far left never called Bush a nazi? Youre so myopic.

You said: Racism is NOT AN OPINION, it is not made up in people's heads. When you go to an office and see the only black people working there are in "lower" positions. You see it when you managed to get hired and your co-workers with less experience and education make more than you. You see it when your HR department does an audit on salaries and education and note that the few minorities and women who work in the same jobs as their white counterparts have significantly more education and experience, but make less money." Th only blk people working in lower positions because they have no education. That isn't racism. You can't give me 5 examples of co-workers with less education or experience making more than somebody else. It's against the law, and you're just pulling stats out of your ass as usaual. If there is differnce in pay it's less than a quarter for every dollar. That isn't a significant difference in pay. You're just plain making shit up again. You're trying to play the victim because you're jealous. When you see fuck ups and losers you ask your self why? It couldn't possibly be their fault. Black people can never be held respossible for themselves, lets scapegoat whites again.

Results of culturally-neutral IQ tests across the globe consistently show that blacks have lower intelligence than whites no matter what the social context. There is no denying that affirmative action permeates American business, government, and education, and there is also no denying that it is Black privilege. WW, Asains don't benefit from Affirmative action at all. Balcks think these groups do, but if you look at the stats, ww and asains don't benefit from AA. WW and Asains get into places based on merit. If whites are more successful than blacks and Hispanics then, it is not because the game is rigged in our favor, but because of innate differences among the races in the traits that lead to accomplishment, like intelligence and providence.


From: siditty@gmail.com
Date: Sep 5, 2009 6:36am
Subject: Re: Your comments are one's I'm too familiar with.
To: Mr man
CC:

My Response:

"This statement by you is to convince your readers that this view, however commonsensical it has become, is entirely inverted. It is an almost inconceivable injustice rooted in a tragic ignorance of history or willful blindness. The world has apparently forgotten Shakespeare was white, Isaac Newton was white, Michelangelo was white. . A full 97 percent of significant scientific figures between 800BC and 1950 have come from the West. Indeed, nearly all the great innovators in science, technology, art, literature, and philosophy have been white. In fact, between the 11th century and 1950, all major technological innovations, from the watch to the steam engine to the computer, came from Europe and the United States. Indeed, white people created the whole moral system that condemns them. "

Yes we live in the West, the west has colonized the world, of course it appears anything of worth came from the west. The fact is that many things of science and math didn't always come from white people, I know you don't know because you don't study them, but feel free to learn about base 10 and base 20 concept in West Africa or the concept of the counting stick in South Africa in 35000 B.C. That they also were using Algebra in East and West Africa. Just because your teacher didn't teach you this, but rather what they did in Europe doesn't mean us negroes were all sitting on our asses doing nothing, like people like you think of when you think of us "dumb negroes".

White people did not create morality, that to say such is completely and utterly dumb, ignorant, and racist.

"Today the world blames white Americans for slavery but forgets that whites were the first to formulate the concept of human rights that is the basis of this condemnation. Until the 19th century slavery was a universal practice, and Arabs, Africans, and Asians never realized it might be wrong until white people told them so and pressured them to abolish it. The very blog you write was create by whites. Your tv, radio, movies, medicine, cars, airplanes, democracy"

I guess white people forget to tell themselves it was bad, because it was still going on in the 19th century in America, and then after the Civil War we had slavery, better known as share cropping and then we had the advent of Jim Crow or systemized, legalized oppression of black people. Maybe whites shouldn't be involved with telling others what to do, until they fix themselves. America received pressure from other whites, but in America, slavery was business as usual.

"The acts undertaken by Americans and their government over the next hundred years, which have had world ramifications for minorities and oppressed people everywhere, including the civil rights battles to end segregation and discrimination, the trillions of dollars devoted to economic programs and affirmative action plans designed to uplift the poor generally and blacks in particular. These are all dismissed."

It's funny how you think Affirmative Action mostly benefits blacks, it doesn't. It appeases whites like you who think blacks are less intelligent, less hard working, and less important than white people. It benefits white women way more than it ever did blacks, which is why college enrollment of white women is now surpassing white men.

I knew Tim Wise would be considered a "self hater" by you LOL

"A few screwballs are pulling their kids out of school, so that represents most whites? This is a perfct example of black privilege. A blk person can say whatever they want about a white person and no one thinks anything of it. However, if someone hates Obama for his idiotic policies than they're racist, as if the far left never called Bush a nazi? Youre so myopic"

You forget the tea baggers and the birthers in the group of screwballs. It is one thing to not like his policies, it is another to constantly question his right to even be President, even though he won the majority vote and the electoral college. Bush lost the majority vote and still became President, why were these same people not questioning him? You don't see the double standard because as a typical white person in your mind white people are inherently put in their positions without question. I've never called Bush a Nazi. I didn't like him as my governor or president, but I didn't go around calling him a Nazi nor did I see the media or major politicians or analysts refer to him as a Nazi. Obama is a different story. I am still awaiting my black privilege, I think I will be waiting for a while on that LOL. I think you inspired my next post.

" You can't give me 5 examples of co-workers with less education or experience making more than somebody else. It's against the law, and you're just pulling stats out of your ass as usaual."

LOL I gave you a huge example, I love how you excluded what happened to my father in his company, him and his black co-workers had that happen to them. The average white in the same position had two years of college and made more money. The average non-white had a Master's degree and made less. To avoid a lawsuit this was abruptly changed, but it was a definite example of how educated black people are told that even with their work experience, education, they still aren't viewed as valuable as their white co-workers. Before you go into the blacks got their degrees in favor of more qualified whites, my father went to the HBCU, and was hired at this company before the advent of Affirmative Action. I also live in Texas, where race based admissions have been banned, and now white people are all up in arms because minority enrollment increased due to Bush, your favorite guy, guaranteeing that if you were in the top 10% of your school, you had automatic admission to any state school of your choice. So explain how more minorities now get into colleges without race based admissions and why white people are still bitching and moaning because their kids didn't study hard enough.


" You're trying to play the victim because you're jealous. When you see fuck ups and losers you ask your self why? It couldn't possibly be their fault. Black people can never be held respossible for themselves, lets scapegoat whites again. "

I played the victim how, by stating FACTS. LOL how pathetic and sad.What proof do you have black people aren't accountable for themselves. Example of typical white racist right there with that comment. You're giving yourself away.

"Results of culturally-neutral IQ tests across the globe consistently show that blacks have lower intelligence than whites no matter what the social context. There is no denying that affirmative action permeates American business, government, and education, and there is also no denying that it is Black privilege. WW, Asains don't benefit from Affirmative action at all."

You are lying, and now pulling facts out your ass. White women are the BIGGEST benefactors of affirmative action, as well as welfare. Asians benefit as they are protected. My IQ is higher than the majority of the American population, so is my brothers, so is my mothers. Are we magical negroes? LOL You are so stupid it isn't even funny.

" WW and Asains get into places based on merit. If whites are more successful than blacks and Hispanics then, it is not because the game is rigged in our favor, but because of innate differences among the races in the traits that lead to accomplishment, like intelligence and providence."

Thanks for your Steve Sailer intellectual racism at the end again proving to me this email was a waste because people like you are too stupid to actually learn anything and will continue to be racist idiots breeding more racist idiots like the cockroach you are.

Again, thanks for proving me right. Thanks for being ignorant, racist, and willful.Thanks for proving that white people have no sense of humanity for people of color.


Here was his response:

From: Mr man
Date: Sep 5, 2009 10:05am
Subject: Re: Your comments are one's I'm too familiar with.
To: siditty@gmail.com
CC:


Fuck YOU CUNT. You're the racist asshole. You couldn't argue any of my points. You just call someone a racist because you can't denate them on issues. FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU. Why the fuck are ou married to a white man?. Why don't you get a life, instea of sitting on your fat ass all day while your white husband works. I fucking hate you and I hope your baby dies. FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU


My response:

From: siditty@gmail.com
Date: Sep 5, 2009 10:18am
Subject: Re: Re: Your comments are one's I'm too familiar with.
To: Mr man
CC:


LOL I did argue your points silly goose. You even asked for examples and I gave you one. How sad and pathetic. I have a life, do you? I'm on bedrest, so yeah I have to sit on my ass all day for a while. It's because of the mixed race baby I am making that you plan on hating and blaming for the downfall of the white man. LOL

I love how you copy paste the same stuff over and over from Stormfront and Steve Sailer by the way. I love it.

Have a good day, don't let the hate get in the way.


What makes all of this funny, is after he sent this email, he sent another trying to prove facts. It was the same stuff copy and pasted off another website, which is par for the course for these type of people. They can never use their own ideas, but rather, copy paste things and say them over and over. I didn't bother at this point to engage in this debate with him, and now he will use that to determine that I am incapable of having civil dialogue, thus proving me inferior, negro intelligence. Like I said before, people will believe what they want to believe.

34 comments:

Sugabelly said...

Um no. Igbos fucking invented Democracy. We've been democratic for THOUSANDS OF YEARS. You hear that???? THOUSANDS not bloody four hundred years. FREAKING THOUSANDS OF FUCKING YEARS!!! We were democratic back when all white people were suffering as peasants under their monarchy's feudal system or whatever, so what the fuck is this guy on???

I hate the fact that all the contributions of Africa to this world are just conveniently ignored and all the achievements that white people accomplished by stealing African resources are constantly played up.

Enough with this bullshit.

A.Smith said...

(sigh)

Well, this e-mail exchange should be all the proof ever needed for what race relations are really like in our post-racial society.

Anonymous said...

See, this should go to show you that your desire to discuss race is a TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

LisaMJ said...

You are a better person than I am for even reading let alone countering his deep and abiding ignorance. I couldn't even read all that he wrote. So ill informed. People like that make me want to give up on the internet and the human race in general. I'm starting to think there is no point in talking to people like that because they will never change their mind and will never allow true information to alter their views. Disgusting.

Michelle said...

Why would you post someones E-mail on your blog?

Siditty said...

Michelle,

Because he was a troll, I doubt that is his real email addy.He used email as a cloak of anonymity. He does this often. Him and others email me mess like this on a regular basis. You are just getting a taste of some of the things I receive in my email.

I usually uphold privacy when people send me emails. I get emails all the time. If I think that the email is worth sharing, I usually ask permission and give credit where credit is due when I post them on this blog.

I didn't feel he wanted or deserved that respect.

Anonymous said...

"I'm starting to think there is no point in talking to people like that because they will never change their mind and will never allow true information to alter their views. Disgusting."

That has been my thoughts these last few days. I used to think that if I could get them on the same wavelength they will see the other side and at least alter their views to be considerate of the experiences of others and the facts presented.Now I realize, it's best to just walk away and just focus on improving things institutionally. How do you have a conversation with someone who says "I hope your baby dies"??! It's just not possible. Very disheartening.

Eri said...

Siditty,

I normally lurk on your blog but I had to come out of hiding to give you kudos on your rebuttals to that racist mental dwarf.

When called out on his extremely limited Western-centric viewpoints, I loved how he resorted to the non-sensical personal attacks...so typical.

Aisha said...

LMAO at his meltdown at the end. Too funny! He realized you are intelligent, he is a lamebrain, and it enraged him so he showed his true colors. People always resort to name-calling when you expose their ignorance. I'm picturing you typing calmly while he is screaming and hitting the keyboard and turning red. Lol.

underOvr (aka The U) said...

Siditty,

This is the same guy (JoVent@aol.com) who sent me an email last Saturday. As I said, I thought about your blog when I saw it.

I lack your patience to talk with people like that.

U

Orchid said...

Anon was me by the way. lol

Grata said...

LOL!@ Jovent,

That guy really does need to stay on those meds. If he gets off them some poor souls may end up dead.

Jovent, you've been ignoring me lately, what's up dude?!

American Black Chick in London said...

Sigh...I agree with A. Smith, although I'll put it more crudely: post-racial society my ass.

I'm all for having an honest and open discussion on race and racism...but it doesn't work if both sides aren't willing to listen...and if one side (ie, your letter writer) comes in completely ignorant and spouts off drivel as fact. Even with my limited knowledge I can refute at least half of the crap he said. But refuting drivel with fact doesn't work for someone who's so quick to make personal attacks. I admire you Siditty...after that second e-mail I probably would have forgotten I was a lady for a quick second and cursed that mofo out.

I'm pretty optimistic, but when I read stuff like the e-mails you received Siditty, it definitely reminds me that race relations in America has a loooong way to go.

Pretty Star said...

Oh boy...I don't think that words exist that define this. This man is just racist, and he doesn't like himself because of it. That's all. I pity him. He'll never know what beauty lies in bonding with people who are nothing like you.

~*~ Pretty Star

lormarie said...

I've been in plenty of discussions about race with whites and for the most part we agree to disagree. I honestly think that this is a more extreme example and not the norm. He said some things that were ridiculous before attacking you personally. I once had a notorious racist nazi come to my blog because he was pissed at a post I created about Barney Frank. I had to nip it in the bud very quickly or he'd have gone completely postal on my blog. He has a rep for dehumanizing blacks and Jews on his blog. Some of these whites are so mentally damaged that there is simply no reasoning with them. They are both delusional and racist...a dangerous combo.

Jamdown said...

Dear Siddity:

You seem to tolerate abuse. It seems as if you talk to all kinds of crazy people. Perhaps you should delete abusive posts and emails and communicate only with people who can disagree with you without being disagreeable.

You do not owe it to anyone to read their crazy, abusive, curse-word laden comments.

If someone cannot comment reasonably, then cut them out.

I couldn't even read your post - I'm not into swear words and derogatory language.

Keep strong. Love your website. Hope you don't get so swamped with negative comments that you have to shut down (like some other bloggers have had to do).

laromana said...

Siddity,
I had a similar experience with an ANTI-BW RACIST/HATER on abagond's blog who posed as a man who "likes BW and wants to get to know them better" but proceeded to spout off clearly ANTI-BW RACIST LIES, MYTHS, and STEREOTYPES to "explain" why he couldn't find "suitable BW" to date.
When I and others strongly challenged his RACIST garbage he resorted to cursing and PERSONAL ATTACKS against me, instead of RATIONALLY answering the VALID challenges I (and others)had raised.
Thankfully, abagond confronted this DUMB, ANTI-BW RACIST JERK and deleted his offensive curses and personal attacks against me.

His ANTI-BW personal attacks and cursing against me demonstrated his lack of respect and TRUE RACIST feelings towards BW.

I thinks it's interesting how these typical ANTI-BLACK RACISTS don't like being confronted with LOGICAL arguments that refute their IRRATIONAL, RACIST, ANTI-BLACK thinking.

Anonymous said...

Siditty, kudos for posting this troll's email address. Crazy as it sounds, I love to hear the utter f*ckery that doesn't filter through moderation.
The hate and disgust he and his ilk feel has intensified because of Obama, lol.
They're writhing in anger, jealousy and fear of a Black planet and I LOVE IT!

Mimi said...

Bwahaha! I agree with Aisha. That JoVent asshat couldn't one up your intelligent responses to his lame copy/paste arguements so all he could do is cuss and scream like a little kid. LMAO. Priceless. I bet he failed out of one semester at a community college.

Miriam said...

Once he's striped of the false intelligence and fake understanding, what's left is a cruel and hateful core.

brohammas said...

Thats how I know I've gone soft lately, I havent heard from Jovent in a while... too busy over here I guess.

Do you think there is only one of him?

Anonymous said...

He was so damn angry in his last email, ha ha!!!!!

You OWNED that dude with some facts that he didn't know or he knew, but didn't think u knew.

They say black people don't want to take responsibility for themselves; we will when they stop being so naive and take responsibility for racsim in this country. They can't even admit that it happens and that everyone isn't seen the same in this country.

More white folks need to be OWNED like he was OWNED. Are u still mad buddy???

Dizzietron (AKA Hadiza) said...

What, what, WHAT. He can't possibly beleive his own hype. Can't he see that in thinking that 97% of the world was formulated by whites that it just proves the education system is racist. How can he possibly put his faith in a society and an education system which goes round teaching that one race formulated 97% of the world. Its sad because it proves someting i've always thought which is that racist beleifs of people taught at home are reinforced in the classroom by teachers and professors.

I don't blame him though, he's just a victim of his education system and upbringing. DON'T BE A VICIM, educate yourself on truth and fact. If you do anything, I implore you to go away now and look at sociogeographical issues and inventions that shaped the world and see for yourself that it was a global collaboration for which whites take credit.

....Algebra is an arabic word

plus you mention michalangelo as a fabulous shaker and mover in the art world but can't you see that you've been taught to think hes brilliant based on the fact he's white and from your culture and taught to discredit those of other cultures just to reinforce the beleif that whites are better and therefore deserve to be in power.

Kathi said...

Good Lord. You could almost hear him spitting on the computer screen as his spelling got worse and his message more profane.

It must suck big-time to be shown up by the very thing you hate and fear.

Dude, seriously. Get a life.

Ronia said...

He hopes your baby dies?

Wow.

Just...wow.

What's even more disgusting is that it's idiots like that one who are being recruited by the White Supremacy Elite (the ones who can actually string whole words into full sentences, speak softly, smile and shake your hand, and the entire time are planning for your eventual deportment/lynching).

laromana said...

The problem is that RACISM isn't RATIONAL. Racists have MADE UP THEIR MINDS to believe RACIST LIES REGARDLESS of the FACTS to the contrary.

Grata said...

Offtopic;

this is heart breaking
Whiter skin Ad

If you look around there is a video on Chinese and surgery too. Minorities need to just get over it

123 said...

@Grata: There are a lot of videos on Youtube of Indian commercials that promote those kinds of creams. I feel bad for the people that buy into this cr@p and worse for any children they may have that come out darker than them.

GallifreyReject said...

Hi Siditty.

I lurk most of the time, but after reading this post, I had to say something.

Like you, I wasn't born during the 60's. My grandfather & great relatives used to tell me about those times and being a student of history, it made me want to live color-blinded (although that was a bad decision lol). Matter of fact to this day, I have NEVER been called the N-word. But, My mother and sister have. Although, I have gotten strange looks from venturing into what some describe as a No Color zone.

I am shocked that he/she/it whatever had the gall to insult not only you, but your unborn child. It is disparaging to me that in this day and age, people cannot have a civilized debate on race. Unlike the Anon poster, I think we need to have that big round table race discussion. But, before that occurs, one must actually research our world history and see how much race and class played(and still plays) a part in the shaping of cultures.

Race has and never will be a Black/White issue. It is a WORLD issue that one day will be discussed.

Anonymous said...

Sugabelly, What African resources did whites steal?

CB said...

anonymous at 7:13

well if you count land, people, gold, diamonds, oil, iron ore, ideas (medicine, math, philosophy... these were borrowed often without giving credit) as resources, then these were the stolen resources. I wouldn't be surprised if there's more that I've forgotten.

Anonymous said...

My feminine intuition tells me this guy has some repressed desires towards black women. I'm not a fan of gratuitous paradoxes, but I can't help but wonder why someone would take the time to try and "logically" tear down the attractiveness factor of a certain race, unless it was on their mind a lot.

Grata said...

"My feminine intuition tells me this guy has some repressed desires towards black women. I'm not a fan of gratuitous paradoxes, but I can't help but wonder why someone would take the time to try and "logically" tear down the attractiveness factor of a certain race, unless it was on their mind a lot."

Good point. I don't get people who like to harp on the ugliness of Black women. If someone is ugly to you, just don't look at them and avoid them. Go pay attention to the attractive ones.

curlykidz said...

"culturally-neutral IQ tests"

That's such a huge oxymoron I almost choked and peed on myself at the same time. There are some IQ tests that are less racially and culturally biased than others, but they are rarely used in public schools right here in the US, much less "around the globe"